When Billy Eichner likes your comment on his TikTok and then replies with a ❤️, you post that shit on your blog so when your kids are grown, after their reverence for you has been eroded by the knowledge that you were only ever just a dude, yes a dude who loved them infinitely, but also a dude who, like most other parents, didn’t really ever have a clue what he was doing, anyway, you post that shit so after that, there is a place for them, together with all of posterity who have the eyes to see, to gather and bear witness to your meager but enduring glories.

See also: Jeri Ryan favorited a post of mine in 2023.

A TikTok screenshot. The top section shows a video clip featuring Billy Eichner, wearing a blue shirt and holding a microphone while someone off-screen speaks as they shake hands with Lin-Manuel Miranda, who is wearing a black t-shirt and smiling. Below the video, the comments section includes a comment from user “jooooooooooooooooooooooooeee” reading, “Him breaking them up while screaming for validation is so darkly wholesome.” Underneath this comment is a reply from the creator, Billy Eichner, consisting of a red heart emoji (❤️).